the sims 2 + dating/friendship stuff (surprise!)

21/2/2026

contining on from the sims stuff....

i will say, i still want to get a seperate machine for the sims 3.... i feel like compared to every game besides the sims 4, that game file will just be way too big to sit on my current PC.

okay dating stuff el oh el

have been thinking about dating (obviously, i always am) and how i think im going to stay celibate or something until i get myself back on my feet and when im a little bit older, like closer to 30. i mean who knows

ive been putting much more effort into my friendships because romance isnt everything, and i like hanging out with my friends and alot of the things people do with their partners anyway are no different to what you can do with your friends.

thing is most of my friends want to hang out on days they are compeletly free which i understand but idk i feel like people my age think you have to be 100% unemployed and free all day to hang out but will fantasise about friends (the sitcom) and other shows and its like. you realise they were hanging out after work right? and we can do the same? (unless you're tired then i get it)

alot of my friends are in relationships now and if they arent, they're atleast getting hot and initmate with sexy strangers at clubs. i wish i was like that but i have to keep reminding myself that now isnt the time! i have a degree to get and a new home to move into!

i often think about how i dont think about dating at the age im at now, as in, i cant really envision it anymore. i think i want to date when people are a little but more mature and older, i dont even think about doing out on dates.

when my friend was helping me making dating profiles for the apps, she asked me to put down a ideal date idea and i couldnt think of any.... not that i dont enjoy it, its one of the reasons why i broke up with my ex - not wanting to hang out much - but i just love the idea and thought of owning a home with my partner that ive been with for about 3 years, and we have 2 cats, and we're both happy with our careers and our life and things are peaceful.

this wont be possible if i try to date around at the age im at now. this isnt a statement about how im never dating again until im 30, i just think im going to calm down with the desire i have and find other outlets, its ok that im not in a relationship. if it happens then it happens, but i think i'll let this stuff happen naturally. a meet cute at a record store (hopefully) or something.